About Stonewall Democratic Club of New York City (SDNYC)

OUR HISTORY: 1986 the year we were founded

Stonewall Democratic Club of New York City was founded in February 1986 as the first and only citywide Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) Democratic organization in

New York City. The first event was a small cocktail party held at The Ballroom in Chelsea. Little did we know that this new organization would grow to be the largest LGBT Democratic political club in the City and State of New York.

The organization is named in honor of the Stonewall Rebellion of 1969, the beginning of the modern gay rights movement. In 1969, New York’s gay community decided to fight back against the ongoing routine of police harassment and arrest of gay men, lesbians, and transgender people in Greenwich Village. On the night of June 27-28, 1969 a conflict erupted when the patrons of the Stonewall Inn on Christopher Street, decided to stand up and fight to defend their rights to congregate at a gay bar. The battle with police went on for nearly a week and it eventually led to a new policy by New York City and the police department to stop harassing and arresting LGT people. The LGBT community burst out of the closet and this pivotal moment became known as “the hairpin heard around the world”. There was no looking back.

The Stonewall Democratic Club was founded to continue to fight for those rights. The founders wanted to create a strong voice within the Democratic Party that would represent the interests and concerns of the LGBT community within the party. The goals were to influence elections, legislation, and policy on the city, state, and national levels of government. The most important issues of concern in 1986 were our civil rights and our health.

In New York City the year 1986 was mementos because it was the year the New York City Council finally passed the “Gay Rights Bill”. The bill was introduced every year for 15 years until it finally passed in 1986. That year, Peter Vallone Sr. was elected Majority Leader, later to be renamed Speaker, of the Council. Although he personally did not support the bill, he appointed enough Council Members to the General Welfare Committee who did support the bill so that it could be brought to the floor for a full vote of the Council. He agreed to allow members to vote their conscience. On March 20, 1986 the full Council passed the bill by a margin of 21-1.

This new law prohibited discrimination in housing, employment, and public accommodation based on a person’s sexual orientation. Mayor Ed Koch, a supporter of the bill, signed it into law a few days later.

The year 1986 was also the height of the AIDS epidemic. New York City became and continues to be the epicenter of the epidemic in the United States. In 1986, gay men in New York City were being decimated by this new disease. Many men became ill and very quickly, often within weeks or months, died terrible, painful deaths. AIDS forced our community to start to confront many difficult issues, life and death issues, including: health care, health insurance, domestic partner’s rights, hospital visitation, discrimination against people diagnosed or perceived to be infected with the HIV/AIDS, grief, and funerals, many funerals. AIDS forced even the most non-political people in our community to become political activists. Government and politicians held our survival in their hands and our community began to understand that voting, elections, government funding, and laws did matter.

Also in 1986, a major political loss for our community was the Bowers v. Hardwick decision by the United States Supreme Court. This decision upheld the constitutionality of the Georgia sodomy laws which criminalized oral and anal sex in private, by consenting adults of the same sex. This was a terrible defeat for the LGBT community. It adversely influenced LGBT rights for the next 17 years. In 2003, the Supreme Court reversed Bowers v. Hardwick in the Lawrence v. Texas decision, when it struck down the Texas sodomy laws as unconstitutional.

Officers and Board of Directors

Melissa Sklarz – President

A long time activist and icon in the LGBT community, Melissa became the first transgender person elected to office in New York when she was elected Judicial Delegate from the 66th Assembly District in 1999. She likewise, became the first transgender person from New York to be part of the state delegation at the Democratic National Convention, by being appointed to the Credentials Committee in 2004 and again on the Rules Committee in 2008.

Melissa helped bring civil rights to transgender people in New York City when INT 24 became law in 2002 and has been a lobbying leader for GENDA (Gender Expression Non Discrimination Act)

In 2010, Melissa was at the side of Governor Paterson when he announced an executive order protecting the rights of transgender people employed by New York State.

Melissa also had a featured role in the film Transamerica.

Charles Bayor – Vice President

Charles is a native New Yorker, growing up in the Grand Concourse section of the Bronx. He graduated from Wm. Howard Taft H.S; Hunter College (Lehman College); and American University (Washington D.C.) with a degree in Political Science.

After college, Charles returned to N.Y. where he began his Teaching Career, first in Intermediate school then in High School, as a teacher of social studies.

Upon retiring as a teacher, he began mentoring new chapter leaders and rebuilding failing chapters at various schools in NYC. Charles presently serves on the Economic and Social Committee of the UFT, and has been appointed by the President of the UFT (Randi Weingarten) to a special task force on Civil Rights.

In addition to his longtime political and social activist as Chapter Leader, Delegate and the political action liaison for the UFT in Manhattan, Charles served as Vice President of Gouverneur Hospital, is currently an active member of Community Board 3, is Chair of the local School Board, and is a Democratic District leader.

He joined the Stonewall Board of Directors in 2008, became Recording Secretary in 2010, and became Vice President in 2012.

Charles has been honored for his commitment by Gouverneur Hospital, and the Manhattan Democratic Club.

Ben Murphy – Vice President

Eunic Ortiz – Vice President

Chap James Day – Recording Secretary

Chap has been active with Stonewall since 2008, and joined the Board as a Member at Large in July 2011. He has volunteered on several campaigns for various leaders including Christine Quinn, Daniel Dromm, Aravella Simotas, and Michael Gianaris. He is an active member of the Powhatan and Pocahontas Regular Democratic Club in Astoria and the Lesbian and Gay Democratic Club of Queens.

He serves on the Board of Out Astoria, an Astoria-based LGBT civic organization; as a Provincial Coordinator for Integrity USA, the LGBT advocacy organization for the Episcopal Church; and he is the Festival Chair for Queens Lesbian and Gay Pride Committee.

Chap works for WITNESS, an international nonprofit organization that uses the power of video and storytelling to open the eyes of the world to human rights abuses. It was co-founded in 1992 by musician and human rights advocate Peter Gabriel, Human Rights First and the Reebok Human Rights Foundation.

He lives in Astoria with his partner Michael Mallon.

Michael Mallon – Corresponding Secretary

Michael Mallon

Michael Mallon

 

 

Joseph G. Hagelmann, III – Treasurer

Joe Hagelmann

 

 


Executive Board of Directors

Marty Algaze

Richard Allman

Steve Ashkinazy

Robert Atterbury

Kevin Burke

Matthew W. Carlin

Michael F. Colosi

Frankie Fraioli

Lewis Goldstein

Fredy Kaplan

Yetta Kurland

Aubrey Lees

Marc Levine

Brice Peyre

Tom Smith

Pete Webb

At Large Board Members

Rose Christ

Bryan Ellicott

Matt Silverstein

Jonas Siregar

Tenured Board Members

Paul J. Del Duca

Saul Fishman

Dirk McCall

Connie Ress

Lew Todd

Frank Wilkinson

Bob Zuckerman

Board of Governors

Mark P. Thompson  – Co-Chair

Barbara Russo  – Vice-Chair